What is financial domination?
Like any kink out there, financial domination, or ‘findom’ as it is also known, is a power exchange between a dominant and their submissive. It’s almost always combined with other kinks such as blackmail, foot fetish, chastity, cuckolding etc. So lets talk about what makes financial domination so special.
True financial subs get a kick out of sending their hard earned cash to beautiful, dominant women. But even if you don’t call yourself a ‘financial sub’. Unless you are particularly talented, the easiest, most universally accessible way to please your dominant, is money. It’s the most direct way to improve their life. It shows you appreciate their time & effort and it shows sacrifice on your behalf.
A huge part of financial domination is building a trusting relationship. That with time and effort, will flourish. Some of my best, (and most profitable) relationships with subs occur because I understand exactly how to get into their heads. I push all the right buttons, how do I do that? By getting to know them while they are proving themselves to me.
Want to prove yourself to me? Begin by filling in my slave application!
I sent you a tribute Goddess, am I your paypig/moneyslave/ATM yet?!
As wonderful as it is to receive wish list items, tributes and bulk clip orders. True financial domination = a power exchange. Simply put, without a session that involves a direct power exchange between you and your dominant, you are sending a much appreciated gift.
Paying for sessions with us means we provide you with a safe space to explore your kinks and deepest, darkest desires. It also reimburses us for our time, time we could have spent with a loved one, on self-care or with another paying sub. Time is something we can’t get back. It’s precious, so I’m personally very wary of who I spend my time on, so not to waste it.
If you are seeking a dominant who will only fulfil your needs, but you overlook ours ($$$). You’re saying your needs supersede our own. This isn’t submission, nor is it findom or any other kink. True subs understand that their Goddess should come first. If you aren’t willing to sacrifice for her, why should she do the same for you when there are plenty of others willing to pay to take your place.
If you’ve ever looked at a relationship between a sub/dom and thought, ‘wow, how lucky!’ I guarantee you, it isn’t luck. Like with many things in life, it is consistent time, effort and $$$ that formed the relationship you’re observing.
Pay pigs, ATM’s, Money slave?
In the world of findom, there are a few popular terms for different types of serving subs. Pay pigs, which are possibly the most well known and common type of finsub, are there to cover bills, buy gifts, fulfil reimbursement opportunities etc. They generally take care of smaller tasks.
Human ATM became popular due to real time cash meets, where subs hand over a wad of cash to their Goddess in person. Usually directly from an ATM.
Money Slaves are there to surrender completely, therefore they are the rarest of all. They are nothing but a walking, talking wallet, and will be treated as such. This type of servitude isn’t for the faint of heart or for those with light wallets.
It is popular for finsubs to also enjoy – blackmail, debt contracts, cash meets, real time rinses, shopping sprees, being ripped off (intentionally) & cam sessions with their Goddess. A whole smorgasbord of kink is involved within financial domination. And that is why I love it so very much.
Does financial domination require a lot of $$$
There are many, many findoms online. All with their own styles, limits, kinks and price points. Some of us are luxury Dommes, such as myself. Who price higher. And for some, this is just a hobby, a bit of fun. So they charge less. Both are okay. Neither should be compared.
You should be seeking a dominant who you are most compatible with. Does she offer your kinks? Is she within your price range? Can you afford her? Do you like her content? Do you wish to please her? These are all questions you should be asking yourself when choosing to get in touch with a dominant.
There are of course, catfish and far too many insta-doms out there. But that’s a blog post for another day. Use you brain (not the thing between your legs), and I’m sure you’ll be just fine.
What you’ll really get out of a relationship all boils down to the effort you’re willing to put in for your Goddess. If you want a short lived, unsatisfactory femdom experience, you’ll send once and expect far too much back. However, if you send as often as you can, within your budget. If you show your ability to sacrifice for her. I guarantee they’ll be far more willing to make time for you. And thus, your relationship can flourish.
Above all, communication is key. Tell us your desires, fetishes, fantasies. Tell us what makes you weak. And then we can really have some fun. And most importanly, tell us in a tip note and you’ll get a reply back!
In financial domination, Money is the prerequisite to something much deeper.